Incepe ca de fiecare data cu o idee, se concretizeaza si apar si opinii pe marginea ei. Inovator, extraordinar, stralucitor.... Multe cuvinte de lauda si prea putine confirmari ca este bine sau nu. Desi poate parea un monolog "aiurea-n tramvai", credeti-ne pe cuvant cand spunem ca uneori trebuie sa te gandesti inainte sa faci saltul. Nu mai de parte de astazi (02.08.2011) ai nostrii politicieni s-au gandit ca ar fi bine sa interzica consumul de lapte praf la copii cu exceptiile de rigoare:cazuri medicale, recomandarea medicului. In plus, vor sa interzica si publicitatea de orice fel in punctele de vanzare, maternitati, reviste de specialitate, etc.
Si stau si ma intreb: nu mai bine ar face ordine in sistemul nostru sanitar in loc sa debiteze prostii?! In maternitati in Romania neonatologii nici macar nu trec sa verifice ce fac mamele/copii dupa nastere. Copii sunt tinuti separat de mamici iar in timpul noptii sunt hraniti cu seringa cu lapte praf. Mamicile nu sunt invatate, ajutate sa alapteze si mai rau nu sunt consiliate pentru depresia post natala, dar noua ne pasa de laptele praf !
Sincer, parca suntem in ziua cartitei si cu toate astea tot mai asteptam sa se intample ceva !
Aici se potriveste proverbul cu chelul si tichia de margaritar !
Sa aveti o noapte linistita, ce a mai ramas din ea caci noi vom lucra cu drag si spor la noua colectie de toamna - iarna 2011 ce va fi postat in curand pe www.petitefleur.ro
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Start as always with an idea to materialize and appear and views on them. Innovative, extraordinary, brilliant .... Many words of praise and little acknowledgment that it is good or not. Although it may seem like a monologue "crazy-n tram," Believe us when we say that you have to look before you leap. For example today (08/02/2011) of our politicians have thought it would be better to ban the consumption of powdered milk in children with the necessary exceptions: medical cases and on doctor recommendation. In addition, they want to prohibit advertising of any kind in point of sale, maternity, magazines, etc.. And I wonder: would be better to make some order in our health system instead of debit nonsense? In maternity hospitals in Romania neonatology do not even check on mothers / children after birth. Children and mothers are kept separate during the night are fed with milk powder from a syringe. Mothers are not taught, helped to breastfeed and worse are not advised for postnatal depression, but we care about the powder milk! Frankly, we feel like we are on the day grumbling and all this still expect something to happen!
This is something like a bald and hood of pearl!
Have a quiet night, what was left of it because we will work to finish the new collection for autumn - winter 2011 and will be posted soon on www.petitefleur.ro
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26 iul. 2011
moms advices/ sfaturi pentru mame
Deseori mi s-a intamplat sa fiu sunata si intrebata diverse chestii despre bebelusi, asta bineinteles dupa ce am nascut, de parca detin adevarul absolut. La inceput era chiar dragut si ma implicam foarte mult in a sfatui sau mai bine spus a impartasi din experienta mea cu mamica ingrijorata. Insa am dat si peste mamici care sunau doar ca sa sune....
De exemplu:
Suna ca bebelusul are nasucul infundat si ca nu poate scoate secretiile cu pompa de mana. O intreb frumos de ce natura sunt secretiile: apoase sau mai consistente. Pentru ca in cazul in care secretiile sunt cu o consistenta/vascozitate mai mare trebuie pus in nasuc putin ser fiziologic, asteptat si abia apoi apelam la pompa. Daca nu se poate cu pompa de mana, incercam cu batista bebelusului (stiu ca poate fi un subiect pro sau contra folosirea acesteia). Mamica asculta dupa care vine si raspunsul ei: a, bine, doar atat, pai nu m-ai lamurit cu nimic. WTF?!
Exemplul 2:
Suna telefonul, raspund. De la celalat capat al firului se aude: ce faceti cum mai sunteti? Eu raspund dragut: mai nu asa de bine, micuta mea a facut rinofaringita si am fost la ORL-ist pt un control.
Mamica care sunase: si te-ai dus la control la medic si ai dat bani doar ca sa-ti spuna ca are rosu in gat?
WTF again!
Exemplul 3:
Mamica X suna: bebe plange, nu stiu ce are?
Raspund: a mancat/ supt? a dormit? e schimbata? este ok temperatura in camera in care sta bebe?
Mamica X: da, la toate cele de mai sus
Eu: poate de la colici plange. Ai incercat ceaiuri, siropuri?
Mamica X: da, dar nu-i mai dau pentru ca doarme de la ele!
WTF AGAIN !
Concluzie:
Nu toate mamicile vor ajutorul tau !
Nu-ti mai bate capul sa oricum nu conteaza !
Stai in banca ta !
Asata e articolul de astazi si face parte din seria pe care o vom lansa in curand:
Intamplari mari si mici cu pitici si mamici!
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It often happened to me to be called for different things about babies, that of course after I gave birth, as if I was holding the absolute truth. At first it was really nice and I involved myself very much in the advice or rather to share my experience with worried mother. But I've also met mothers who were calling just .....to call ....
For example: Is calling because her baby has clogged nose and could not pump the fluid out. I ask her nicely about the nature of the fluid: aqueous or consistent. Because if the secretions are consistency / viscosity greater you should placed some saline solution into baby's nose, wait and then use the pump. If you can not pump it out, try "baby handkerchief" (I know it can be an issue for or against its use). The mother listen then comes her answer: a, well, just so, well you did not cleared at all. WTF?
Example 2: The phone rings, I answer. From the other end of the line i can hear: How are you? How is the baby? I respond nicely: well, not so good, my little one has nasopharyngitis and we went to the otolaryngologist for a check up. Mother who had called: and you went to the doctor and spent a lot of money just to tell you that your baby has a red throat? WTF again!
Example 3: Mommy X calls: My baby cries a lot, I do not know why? Reply to: did the baby ate / sucked? slept? is changed? room temperature is it ok ? Mommy X: Yes, all of the above I: the baby can also from colic. Have you tried teas, syrups? Mommy X: Yes, but I no longer give him/her this because it makes him/her asleep!
WTF AGAIN!
Conclusion:
Not all mothers wants your help!
Do not bother, it does not matter anyway!
Stay calm!
That's the today article and is part of the series which we will launch soon: Moms and babies adventures!
De exemplu:
Suna ca bebelusul are nasucul infundat si ca nu poate scoate secretiile cu pompa de mana. O intreb frumos de ce natura sunt secretiile: apoase sau mai consistente. Pentru ca in cazul in care secretiile sunt cu o consistenta/vascozitate mai mare trebuie pus in nasuc putin ser fiziologic, asteptat si abia apoi apelam la pompa. Daca nu se poate cu pompa de mana, incercam cu batista bebelusului (stiu ca poate fi un subiect pro sau contra folosirea acesteia). Mamica asculta dupa care vine si raspunsul ei: a, bine, doar atat, pai nu m-ai lamurit cu nimic. WTF?!
Exemplul 2:
Suna telefonul, raspund. De la celalat capat al firului se aude: ce faceti cum mai sunteti? Eu raspund dragut: mai nu asa de bine, micuta mea a facut rinofaringita si am fost la ORL-ist pt un control.
Mamica care sunase: si te-ai dus la control la medic si ai dat bani doar ca sa-ti spuna ca are rosu in gat?
WTF again!
Exemplul 3:
Mamica X suna: bebe plange, nu stiu ce are?
Raspund: a mancat/ supt? a dormit? e schimbata? este ok temperatura in camera in care sta bebe?
Mamica X: da, la toate cele de mai sus
Eu: poate de la colici plange. Ai incercat ceaiuri, siropuri?
Mamica X: da, dar nu-i mai dau pentru ca doarme de la ele!
WTF AGAIN !
Concluzie:
Nu toate mamicile vor ajutorul tau !
Nu-ti mai bate capul sa oricum nu conteaza !
Stai in banca ta !
Asata e articolul de astazi si face parte din seria pe care o vom lansa in curand:
Intamplari mari si mici cu pitici si mamici!
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It often happened to me to be called for different things about babies, that of course after I gave birth, as if I was holding the absolute truth. At first it was really nice and I involved myself very much in the advice or rather to share my experience with worried mother. But I've also met mothers who were calling just .....to call ....
For example: Is calling because her baby has clogged nose and could not pump the fluid out. I ask her nicely about the nature of the fluid: aqueous or consistent. Because if the secretions are consistency / viscosity greater you should placed some saline solution into baby's nose, wait and then use the pump. If you can not pump it out, try "baby handkerchief" (I know it can be an issue for or against its use). The mother listen then comes her answer: a, well, just so, well you did not cleared at all. WTF?
Example 2: The phone rings, I answer. From the other end of the line i can hear: How are you? How is the baby? I respond nicely: well, not so good, my little one has nasopharyngitis and we went to the otolaryngologist for a check up. Mother who had called: and you went to the doctor and spent a lot of money just to tell you that your baby has a red throat? WTF again!
Example 3: Mommy X calls: My baby cries a lot, I do not know why? Reply to: did the baby ate / sucked? slept? is changed? room temperature is it ok ? Mommy X: Yes, all of the above I: the baby can also from colic. Have you tried teas, syrups? Mommy X: Yes, but I no longer give him/her this because it makes him/her asleep!
WTF AGAIN!
Conclusion:
Not all mothers wants your help!
Do not bother, it does not matter anyway!
Stay calm!
That's the today article and is part of the series which we will launch soon: Moms and babies adventures!
25 iul. 2011
emotiile viitoarei mamici / emotions for moms to be (this is for my good friend IZA)
Zilele astea am vorbit cu o prietena care urmeaza sa fie mamica, cam intr-o saptamana si mi-a spus angoasele care o perturba in ultima perioada si m-am gandit sa postez o parere avizata. Asa, mamicile care vor citi isi vor intelege mai bin corpul si trairile cu care se confrunta. Este bine sa vorbesti si cu o prietena care a trecut prin asta, te mai linisteste si te simti mai ok cand auzi ca si alte femei au trecut prin ce treci tu....
Asadar ,iata articolul si fetelor cititi-l cu atentie, iar daca aveti nevoie de cineva cu care sa vorbiti suntem oricand alaturi de voi ! (office.petitefleur@yahoo.com; office.petitefleur-idul de mess sau detaliile de pe site www.petitefleur.ro)
Desi fiecare sarcina este unica, anumite modificari sunt comune tuturor sarcinilor normale. Cunoasterea modificarilor fizice si emotionale care apar, ajuta femeile sa inteleaga sarcina si sa aiba o atitudine pozitiva.
Primul trimestruIn timpul primului trimestru dovezile sarcinii sunt limitate la absenta menstruatiei si la pozitivarea testului de sarcina, confirmata si de medicul specialist. Pot aparea cateva modificari fizice, cum ar fi greata si varsaturi, fatigabilitatea sau sensibilitatea la nivelul sanilor. Aceste simptome sunt frecvente si variaza in intensitate. Apare labilitatea emotionala, iar depresiile, fara un motiv aparent, nu sunt neobisnuite. Modificarile de dispozitie se datoreaza modificarilor hormonale pe care le implica sarcina. Principalii doi hormoni, care joaca un rol major in sarcina, sunt estrogenul si progesteronul. Modificarile de dispozitie variaza de la fericire la depresie. Femeile plang frecvent din motive minore. Daca sunt intrebate de ce plang, le este imposibil sa gaseasca motivul. Aceasta situatie este foarte tulburatoare pentru soti sau parteneri, facandu-i sa se simta confuzi si nepotriviti si pentru ca se simt neputinciosi in a opri partenera/sotia din plans, se retrag sau ignora problema. Deoarece femeile insarcinate au nevoie de foarte multa dragoste si afectiune, acestea ii vor percepe ca fiind neiubitori si neimplicati. Odata ce cuplul intelege ca aceste modificari sunt fiziologice, le va fi mai usor sa treca prin acesta perioada, desi aceasta intr-o anumita masura, va fi o sursa de stres pe toata perioada sarcinii. Initial, desi sarcina a fost planificata, pozitivarea testului va fi totusi o surpriza. Femeia poate avea sentimente de nesiguranta in ceea ce priveste sarcina. Sentimentul ca nu este momentul potrivit pentru un copil, deoarece cariera va fi compromisa sau stresurile financiare sunt frecvente. Sentimentele de nesiguranta sunt legate de asumarea unei mari responsabilitati, aceea de mama, teama de momentul nasterii etc. Sarcina nu pare a fi reala, pana in saptamana a 12-a cand bataile inimii fatului pot fi auzite cu un aparat Doppler.
Al doilea trimestru
Cel de-al doilea trimestru este oarecum linistit. Greturile de dimineata dispar de obicei in acest trimestru. Posibilitatea de avea un avort spontan scade. Atractia principala a acestui trimestru este perceperea miscarilor fatului, care incep in cursul celei de a 12-a saptamana. Perceptia miscarilor fetale declanseaza schimbari radicale in sentimentele femeii fata de sarcina. Ea percepe acum fatul ca fiind o persoana reala si devine incantata de sarcina, chiar daca nu fusese asa pana atunci. Adesea, femeile sunt pline de energie si se simt mai bine in cel de-al doilea trimestru, denumit adesea "stralucirea sarcinii". Cele mai multe femei incep sa poarte haine speciale pentru femei insarcinate. Ele incep sa isi intrebe rudele si prietenii despre sarcina, despre momentul nasterii, pot chiar urma cursuri despre sarcina si nastere. Sentimentele si nelinistile experimentate in timpul sarcinii sunt intense si variate, fiind unice pentru fiecare femeie in parte. Acestea fac parte din cursul normal al sarcinii.
Al treilea trimestru
Al treilea trimestru combina un sentiment de mandrie cu unul de anxietate despre cum va fi dupa ce copilul se va naste. Datorita abdomenului proeminent care tradeaza o sarcina avansata, femeilor li se va oferi un scaun intr-o camera aglomerata sau unii oameni necunoscuti se vor oferi sa le care bagajele. Multe femei au realmente nevoie de acest ajutor si se vor bucura de acest privilegiu al sarcinii. Din contra, unele femei vor refuza aceste ajutoare, din teama ca aceste gesturi demonstreaza ca sunt neputinciose sau se vor simti chiar jignite de aceste gesturi. In timpul ultimelor saptamani de sarcina, sentimentele de neliniste si anxietate se pot agrava odata cu disconfortul fizic. Pot avea insomnii datorita imposibilitatii de a gasi o pozitie confortabila. Contractiile periodice pot cauza disconfort, la fel ca si pozitia fatului in uter. Femeile se pot simti foarte vulnerabile la refuzuri, pierderi sau insulte in timpul acestei perioade. Se pot simti respingatoare si nedorite de catre sotii/partenerii lor. Nevoile sexuale ale femeilor insarcinate pot fi satisfacute de catre partenerii/sotii lor prin dezmierdari, sarutari si imbratisari. Femeile insarcinate sunt dornice ca disconfortul cauzat de sarcina sa se termine, dar in acelasi timp sunt ingrijorate de realitatea de a deveni mame si de modificarile care vor urma in relatia maritala si familie, in special de modul in care ii va afecta pe ceilalti frati noul membru al familiei. Pot fi ingrijorate de durerile nasterii, in special daca au mai avut o experienta neplacuta la nasterile anterioare sau daca nu au mai avut nici o nastere si nu stiu la ce sa se astepte. In timpul ultimei luni de sarcina, femeile sunt preocupate, de asemenea, de sanatatea viitorului copil.
sursa:sfatulmedecului.ro
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These days I spoke with a mom to be friend, she is going to gine birth in a week and she told me bout anxieties that interfere with her life lately, and I thought to post an endorsed opinion. Thus, mothers who read will better understand their body and feelings that are facing. It's good to talk with a friend who went through it, it will calm you and you better when you hear that other women have gone through what you experience .... So here's the article and girls read it carefully and if you need someone to talk with whenever you need, here we are! (Office.petitefleur @ yahoo.com; office.petitefleur-ID of mess or details on the site www.petitefleur.ro)
Although each pregnancy is unique, certain changes are common to all. Knowing the physical and emotional changes that occur, help women understand pregnancy and have a positive attitude.
First trimester
During the first trimester of pregnancy is limited evidence in the absence of menstruation and a positive pregnancy test confirmed by the doctor. May occur some physical changes, such as nausea and vomiting, fatigue or breast tenderness. These symptoms are common and vary in intensity. Appears emotional lability and depression, for no apparent reason, are not unusual. Mood changes are due to hormonal changes that involve pregnancy. The two main hormones that play a major role in pregnancy are estrogen and progesterone. Mood changes ranging from happiness to depression. Women often are crying of minor reasons. If are asked why they are crying, it is impossible to find the reason. This situation is very disturbing to spouses or partners, making them feel confused and wrong and because they feel powerless to stop the partner / wife crying, withdraw or ignore the problem. Because pregnant women need a lot of love and affection, they will perceive as lovers and not specified. Once the couple understands that these changes are physiological, it will be easier to go through this period, although this to some extent, will be a source of stress throughout the pregnancy. Initially, although the pregnancy was planned, a positive test will still be a surprise. She may have feelings of uncertainty regarding the pregnancy. Feeling that it is not appropriate for a child because his career will be compromised or financial stresses are common. Feelings of insecurity are related to taking a great responsibility, that of mother, fear of childbirth, etc. Pregnancy does not seem real until the 12th week when fetal heartbeat can be heard with a Doppler device.
Second trimester
The second trimester is somewhat quiet. Morning sickness usually disappear in the period. The possibility of having a miscarriage decreases. The highlight of this trimester is the perception of fetal movements, beginning during the 12th week. Perception of fetal movements triggers radical change in women's feelings towards the pregnancy. She now perceives the fetus as a real person and is excited about the task, even if it was not until now. Often, women are full of energy and feel better in the second trimester, often called "pregnancy glow". Most women begin to wear special clothes for pregnant women. They begin to ask relatives and friends about the pregnancy, about the time of birth, can even take courses on pregnancy and birth. Feelings and anxieties experienced during pregnancy are intense and varied, are unique for each woman. They are part of the normal course of pregnancy.
Third trimester
The third quarter combines a sense of pride with one of anxiety about how it will be after the baby is born. Because of prominent abdomen that betrays the advanced pregnancy, women will be offered a seat in a crowded room, or some unknown people who will offer to carry their bags. Many women really need this help and will enjoy the privilege of pregnancy. On the contrary, some women will refuse such aid, for fear that these gestures demonstrate that they are powerless or shows that will feel very offended by such gestures. During the last weeks of pregnancy, feelings of restlessness and anxiety can worsen with physical discomfort. May have insomnia because of inability to find a comfortable position. Regular contractions can cause discomfort, as well as fetal position in uterus. Women can feel very vulnerable to rejection, loss or insults during this period. She may feel unattractive and unwanted by husbands / partners. Pregnant women's sexual needs can be met by partners / husbands with stroke, kisses and hugs. Pregnant women are willing to end the discomfort of pregnancy , yet are concerned about the reality of becoming mothers and the changes to come in marital and family relationships, especially how it will affect other brothers new family member. May be concerned about labor pains, especially if they had a bad experience in previous births or if they had no birth and do not know what to expect. During the last months of pregnancy, women are concerned, also for the health of future children.
Asadar ,iata articolul si fetelor cititi-l cu atentie, iar daca aveti nevoie de cineva cu care sa vorbiti suntem oricand alaturi de voi ! (office.petitefleur@yahoo.com; office.petitefleur-idul de mess sau detaliile de pe site www.petitefleur.ro)
Desi fiecare sarcina este unica, anumite modificari sunt comune tuturor sarcinilor normale. Cunoasterea modificarilor fizice si emotionale care apar, ajuta femeile sa inteleaga sarcina si sa aiba o atitudine pozitiva.
Primul trimestruIn timpul primului trimestru dovezile sarcinii sunt limitate la absenta menstruatiei si la pozitivarea testului de sarcina, confirmata si de medicul specialist. Pot aparea cateva modificari fizice, cum ar fi greata si varsaturi, fatigabilitatea sau sensibilitatea la nivelul sanilor. Aceste simptome sunt frecvente si variaza in intensitate. Apare labilitatea emotionala, iar depresiile, fara un motiv aparent, nu sunt neobisnuite. Modificarile de dispozitie se datoreaza modificarilor hormonale pe care le implica sarcina. Principalii doi hormoni, care joaca un rol major in sarcina, sunt estrogenul si progesteronul. Modificarile de dispozitie variaza de la fericire la depresie. Femeile plang frecvent din motive minore. Daca sunt intrebate de ce plang, le este imposibil sa gaseasca motivul. Aceasta situatie este foarte tulburatoare pentru soti sau parteneri, facandu-i sa se simta confuzi si nepotriviti si pentru ca se simt neputinciosi in a opri partenera/sotia din plans, se retrag sau ignora problema. Deoarece femeile insarcinate au nevoie de foarte multa dragoste si afectiune, acestea ii vor percepe ca fiind neiubitori si neimplicati. Odata ce cuplul intelege ca aceste modificari sunt fiziologice, le va fi mai usor sa treca prin acesta perioada, desi aceasta intr-o anumita masura, va fi o sursa de stres pe toata perioada sarcinii. Initial, desi sarcina a fost planificata, pozitivarea testului va fi totusi o surpriza. Femeia poate avea sentimente de nesiguranta in ceea ce priveste sarcina. Sentimentul ca nu este momentul potrivit pentru un copil, deoarece cariera va fi compromisa sau stresurile financiare sunt frecvente. Sentimentele de nesiguranta sunt legate de asumarea unei mari responsabilitati, aceea de mama, teama de momentul nasterii etc. Sarcina nu pare a fi reala, pana in saptamana a 12-a cand bataile inimii fatului pot fi auzite cu un aparat Doppler.
Al doilea trimestru
Cel de-al doilea trimestru este oarecum linistit. Greturile de dimineata dispar de obicei in acest trimestru. Posibilitatea de avea un avort spontan scade. Atractia principala a acestui trimestru este perceperea miscarilor fatului, care incep in cursul celei de a 12-a saptamana. Perceptia miscarilor fetale declanseaza schimbari radicale in sentimentele femeii fata de sarcina. Ea percepe acum fatul ca fiind o persoana reala si devine incantata de sarcina, chiar daca nu fusese asa pana atunci. Adesea, femeile sunt pline de energie si se simt mai bine in cel de-al doilea trimestru, denumit adesea "stralucirea sarcinii". Cele mai multe femei incep sa poarte haine speciale pentru femei insarcinate. Ele incep sa isi intrebe rudele si prietenii despre sarcina, despre momentul nasterii, pot chiar urma cursuri despre sarcina si nastere. Sentimentele si nelinistile experimentate in timpul sarcinii sunt intense si variate, fiind unice pentru fiecare femeie in parte. Acestea fac parte din cursul normal al sarcinii.
Al treilea trimestru
Al treilea trimestru combina un sentiment de mandrie cu unul de anxietate despre cum va fi dupa ce copilul se va naste. Datorita abdomenului proeminent care tradeaza o sarcina avansata, femeilor li se va oferi un scaun intr-o camera aglomerata sau unii oameni necunoscuti se vor oferi sa le care bagajele. Multe femei au realmente nevoie de acest ajutor si se vor bucura de acest privilegiu al sarcinii. Din contra, unele femei vor refuza aceste ajutoare, din teama ca aceste gesturi demonstreaza ca sunt neputinciose sau se vor simti chiar jignite de aceste gesturi. In timpul ultimelor saptamani de sarcina, sentimentele de neliniste si anxietate se pot agrava odata cu disconfortul fizic. Pot avea insomnii datorita imposibilitatii de a gasi o pozitie confortabila. Contractiile periodice pot cauza disconfort, la fel ca si pozitia fatului in uter. Femeile se pot simti foarte vulnerabile la refuzuri, pierderi sau insulte in timpul acestei perioade. Se pot simti respingatoare si nedorite de catre sotii/partenerii lor. Nevoile sexuale ale femeilor insarcinate pot fi satisfacute de catre partenerii/sotii lor prin dezmierdari, sarutari si imbratisari. Femeile insarcinate sunt dornice ca disconfortul cauzat de sarcina sa se termine, dar in acelasi timp sunt ingrijorate de realitatea de a deveni mame si de modificarile care vor urma in relatia maritala si familie, in special de modul in care ii va afecta pe ceilalti frati noul membru al familiei. Pot fi ingrijorate de durerile nasterii, in special daca au mai avut o experienta neplacuta la nasterile anterioare sau daca nu au mai avut nici o nastere si nu stiu la ce sa se astepte. In timpul ultimei luni de sarcina, femeile sunt preocupate, de asemenea, de sanatatea viitorului copil.
sursa:sfatulmedecului.ro
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These days I spoke with a mom to be friend, she is going to gine birth in a week and she told me bout anxieties that interfere with her life lately, and I thought to post an endorsed opinion. Thus, mothers who read will better understand their body and feelings that are facing. It's good to talk with a friend who went through it, it will calm you and you better when you hear that other women have gone through what you experience .... So here's the article and girls read it carefully and if you need someone to talk with whenever you need, here we are! (Office.petitefleur @ yahoo.com; office.petitefleur-ID of mess or details on the site www.petitefleur.ro)
Although each pregnancy is unique, certain changes are common to all. Knowing the physical and emotional changes that occur, help women understand pregnancy and have a positive attitude.
First trimester
During the first trimester of pregnancy is limited evidence in the absence of menstruation and a positive pregnancy test confirmed by the doctor. May occur some physical changes, such as nausea and vomiting, fatigue or breast tenderness. These symptoms are common and vary in intensity. Appears emotional lability and depression, for no apparent reason, are not unusual. Mood changes are due to hormonal changes that involve pregnancy. The two main hormones that play a major role in pregnancy are estrogen and progesterone. Mood changes ranging from happiness to depression. Women often are crying of minor reasons. If are asked why they are crying, it is impossible to find the reason. This situation is very disturbing to spouses or partners, making them feel confused and wrong and because they feel powerless to stop the partner / wife crying, withdraw or ignore the problem. Because pregnant women need a lot of love and affection, they will perceive as lovers and not specified. Once the couple understands that these changes are physiological, it will be easier to go through this period, although this to some extent, will be a source of stress throughout the pregnancy. Initially, although the pregnancy was planned, a positive test will still be a surprise. She may have feelings of uncertainty regarding the pregnancy. Feeling that it is not appropriate for a child because his career will be compromised or financial stresses are common. Feelings of insecurity are related to taking a great responsibility, that of mother, fear of childbirth, etc. Pregnancy does not seem real until the 12th week when fetal heartbeat can be heard with a Doppler device.
Second trimester
The second trimester is somewhat quiet. Morning sickness usually disappear in the period. The possibility of having a miscarriage decreases. The highlight of this trimester is the perception of fetal movements, beginning during the 12th week. Perception of fetal movements triggers radical change in women's feelings towards the pregnancy. She now perceives the fetus as a real person and is excited about the task, even if it was not until now. Often, women are full of energy and feel better in the second trimester, often called "pregnancy glow". Most women begin to wear special clothes for pregnant women. They begin to ask relatives and friends about the pregnancy, about the time of birth, can even take courses on pregnancy and birth. Feelings and anxieties experienced during pregnancy are intense and varied, are unique for each woman. They are part of the normal course of pregnancy.
Third trimester
The third quarter combines a sense of pride with one of anxiety about how it will be after the baby is born. Because of prominent abdomen that betrays the advanced pregnancy, women will be offered a seat in a crowded room, or some unknown people who will offer to carry their bags. Many women really need this help and will enjoy the privilege of pregnancy. On the contrary, some women will refuse such aid, for fear that these gestures demonstrate that they are powerless or shows that will feel very offended by such gestures. During the last weeks of pregnancy, feelings of restlessness and anxiety can worsen with physical discomfort. May have insomnia because of inability to find a comfortable position. Regular contractions can cause discomfort, as well as fetal position in uterus. Women can feel very vulnerable to rejection, loss or insults during this period. She may feel unattractive and unwanted by husbands / partners. Pregnant women's sexual needs can be met by partners / husbands with stroke, kisses and hugs. Pregnant women are willing to end the discomfort of pregnancy , yet are concerned about the reality of becoming mothers and the changes to come in marital and family relationships, especially how it will affect other brothers new family member. May be concerned about labor pains, especially if they had a bad experience in previous births or if they had no birth and do not know what to expect. During the last months of pregnancy, women are concerned, also for the health of future children.
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